Its is a quiet disturbing issue to youngsters between 18-24, 24-30 we are indecisive about Marital Vows When asked Why are you still single Why are you still single? Issues and factors are divulged, reason career goals, self sufficiency, a compatible partner, life goals and so on.
Marriages generally differs across the globe early and late marriages. Early marriages are well advised in some societies like West Africa and North Africa, Part of Asians( Thailand, Laos etc…). Ancestral history go along way as some are desirous of grand children therefore imposed pressure on their predecessors to sustain the family Lineage.
Early Marriages are rarely advised in North and South America but lately Cultures are being reshaped and transform, Lifestyle is one pillar to it.
As Peer Pressure and some Families are keen on early marriages, they Women are most pressured. One reality we all can’t argue is that Women has rapid growth and age faster.
A Lady in her late Twenties is considered more ripped to start a family, irrespective of Career goals or background a finger is pointed at them when there are no signs of Starting a family Soon nevertheless Humans has different View of how the World should be.
Some Women of Western societies desires to Attain Some achievement in Life before starting a family, even at latter age.
Back home in Nigeria the percentage of women ready for marriage at early 20s is 40% because the expectancy age for Completion of Tertiary Education is 25-26 Yet even at this Stage 50% are to complete the NYSC (National Youth Service Corps) or Tertiary Studies. This leads to early or immediate marriage after the Program.
They Men are Less pressured than the Women after Tertiary Studies and NYSC.
Note some persons that never attain Formal Education maybe Poised to start a family when of age (18 and above). In overseas as mention earlier Some Persons prepared for Marriage at 30s or never marry at all.
What age should Youngsters Marry?
Its is never fixed, Marriage is usually a personal decision which is relaxed due to External factors like Society, life time Partner. How can I get married to someone I do not Love or Like?
In essence once you attain adulthood – (18 years and above) start planning your Career to get a desired time and Kind of Marriage you want and not marriage due to circumstances.
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