Submission of Women and Men

I see a lot of seminars & sermons hammering women into ‘submission‘ & allowing the men to go Scot free

How does a woman submit to a drunkard of a man that uses his whole salary on green bottles & can’t even get pampers for his own kids?

Or how does a lady love & submit to you when she knows she is not the only one in the guys life but she is competing with 3-5 other ladies?

Women have thier flaws too,There may still be some canterkerous cases here and there but Am sure the signs are there before marriage, love just blinded the man to it

But if a man is all he is supposed to be, submission is easy for the woman 8-9 cases out of 10.

Respect begat Respect