One thing we need to look at is the concept of Attraction. You see attraction will determine whether you get a date or not, the good news there is women are more attracted to personality than they are looks. While looks do play a role, if you have the right personality traits women will still be attracted to you even if you aren’t Brad Pitt lookalike.

So if you excuse until now has been that you aren’t rich, famous or brad then you need to realise that it is only an excuse, while women may be attracted to the rich and famous, personality still win outs and if you have the confidence and humor that women love, then you will win every time, irrespective of the size of your bank account.

The even better news is that all these thing can be learned, meaning that you can actually make yourself attractive to women by cultivating the type of personality they would be attracted to.

If you are sputtering and mumbling that you shouldn’t have to change for a woman to be attracted to you that she should like you for who you are, then wake up and take a whiff of reality because everyone has to change. We are all changing throughout our lives and we have two choices: we either life mold us or we channel the change to benefit us.

However just remember that attraction isn’t a choice. It’d not like a woman will see a guy and size him up, then tick of his qualities and suddenly decides.

“I choose to be attracted to him because he is stable, dependent and has a good job”

Attraction is quite biological which means that if she isn’t attracted to you after first date, then there is little you can do about it because you will never be anything be more than a friend to her.